A New Forest lifestyle challenge ......dream come true.

About-Me is all about how My New Forest dream came true, despite a lifestyle challenge and how I made it work for me. I had always loved horses and ponies as a child and now I live my life surrounded by them and other wonderful wildlife in the stunning New Forest UK National Park.
My name is Christina and I'd really like to welcome you to my About-Me page and thank you for visiting my New Forest Life website.
I'm building New Forest Life.com so you can share with me what life in the fantastic New Forest National Park is really like.
I want to show you the best places to see, where to stay, where to eat, and best of all how to enjoy the unique New Forest wildlife.
And guess what?..... You can share my New Forest experiences when you visit....and even add your own stories on many pages ... look out for the * signs on the lefthand nav bar.
I am passionate about the New Forest - could you have guessed? and I'm living my dream.
I will also live from my New Forest dream and guess what?...so can you!
If you hate getting up to the alarm for someone else, why not try getting up for yourself!
Here are just a few suggestions for you. Grab a cuppa (and a cake!) and see what you think.
What I love about this is that I control my life, but most importantly I am enjoying every minute - even when I feel like pulling out my hair when I don't grasp something or how to do it - there's always fantastic help at hand.
Do you feel you may want to
know more?
Eventually, I expect New Forest Life.com to support my lifestyle and I'll tell you how I hope to make this happen, and what lifestyle challenges I overcame to get here...............
Just arrange a visit to the New Forest - either on New Forest Life.com, or in person, and you'll find it's all waiting for you to explore and enjoy .... in the beautiful New Forest.
So why Newforest-Life.com??
I believe life is not a dress rehearsal. We owe it to ourselves to always try to live our dream and overcome lifestyle challenges as they arise.
I believe I have a way of achieving this and this is really what About-Me is all about!
When I look at other websites built by friends and colleagues, the About-Me page seems to be the hardest to write. I can't include a photo as I hate having mine taken - I was going to put one of the dog on About-Me - she was very good looking! Sadly she is no longer with us.
Incase you want to skip the potted history and get to learn more about building your own website on a subject you are passionate about then explore this
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The question we all ask is....
"Who would want to know about my personal challenge or lifestyle dream?"
Anyway, here goes.........................
My Lifestyle Challenge
I had worked all my life in the travel industry. This meant we went on great holidays, stayed in lovely hotels, in glorious locations and had a great time.
The lifestyle was good, our house was lovely but after years and years I knew I wanted to move on.
My heart has always been in nature.
During these times we also had really fabulous holidays in the New Forest.
I had always loved, passionately, horses, ponies, nature and wildlife. Every time we went away to the New Forest, in our caravan for heavens sake!, I found I felt really at home and didn't want to return to our old lifestyle.
A natural response to a New Forest holiday really.

We would sit in a field in the New Forest dusk, drinking a glass of wine, perhaps with friends - enjoying a fantastic lifestyle.
An owl might swoop and hoot overhead, or a New Forest pony would whinny in the distance or a cow moo softly at its wandering calf. (There's quite a lot of mooing going on as I'm writing this)!
We often checked house prices with friends when staying in the New Forest but it really was just a dream, a lifestyle we didn't think we could achieve....
"If we won the lottery we'd buy that New Forest cottage". Just the way you do dream on holiday.
Then a series of lifestyle challenge events happened.
My travel job was making me extremely stressed and I couldn't cope. I was becoming physically ill through stress.
It took me a year of total stress to work out that if I left, my lifestyle would not grind to a halt - in fact, by now it was crucial that I did leave.
I looked for the least stressful job, at the bottom of the career pile, which offered no challenge, and when it was offered took it!
I've always wanted to learn what was going on in my head when a challenge arose, so I decided to study stress and why it had had such a huge effect on me.
This lead to me to doing Stress Presentations in companies and also building my own stress awareness website.
It was a truly cathartic time.
The next lifestyle challenge and major life event.............
My father became seriously ill and my husband was made redundant!
We also had teenage issues going on, but who doesn't?
We decided that now was the time to make the lifestyle change and try to find a house in the New Forest. My husband had spent many happy years around Beaulieu and Buckler's Hard as a child and his family all came from Hampshire originally.
Unfortunately house prices were rising fast and close friends said I would have to give up my dream - after all West Sussex was really nice! It is but Sussex wasn't my dream - my dream was the New Forest
Would we have to give up our dream? Would this be one lifestyle challenge too much?
My husband had spent many happy childhood years in the New Forest.
We had spent years and years visiting and loving it more and more each trip.
And were desperately trying to make the move, live the dream and face the lifestyle challenge head on.
We rented New Forest cottage which was thatched. It was a bit of a pile.
You couldn't run a bath without risking falling through the partially rotting floor.
A rat had got in and died next to a hot water pipe, so we had to take up the floor in a storage part of the roof to find it's putrid little body - oh the joys of country living!
We vowed we would definitely NOT be buying a thatched cottage as part of our lifestyle dream - definitely not!
Then we saw a Grade 11 Listed thatched cob cottage, in an area we didn't think we wanted to live on the New Forest,... and bought it!
My husband has just read this and said, "How did we survive?"
If you would like to hear more of my New Forest Life Tales then just subscribe to my monthly ezine by filling in the box below. There is an update to this lovely photo as Mama Pig as we knew her is no more! A very sad time.
You do always survive, whatever life or lifestyle challenge is thrown at you.
I believe you have to keep moving forward ...
believe in that dream....
take a lifestyle challenge, whatever it is....
and face it head on.
I've always been quite an impatient person (ask my husband), if it wasn't happening I would try to make it happen.
With this particular lifestyle challenge I really had to learn patience. But more importantly, never give up the dream.
Until we lived on the New Forest properly I don't think we realised just how special it is, to us.

Sometimes at night we are kept awake by the chewing of cows outside the gate.
Other times the owls have a good old hoot in the Oak trees in the wood opposite. New Forest ponies whinny and birds wake us - maybe this is sounding like a nightmare to the town dweller?
However, most nights we have total silence. The starry sky is spectacular. We walk the dog on winter nights and share all the sounds of nature and see deer in our torch light scurrying away or if we are lucky just stopping in their tracks and staring at us. Sometimes the biggest challenge is not to walk into a grazing cow or New Forest pony in the pitch dark!
It is the animals and wildlife together with the wonderful places to visit and explore that I want to share with you.
It's all here for me to share with you and this is why my website is being built.
I am doing something I truly love, I am living my dream, and I will share it with you, through my website and About-Me. (I hope to update the About-Me page as things progress).
How am I overcoming my lifestyle challenge?
I've achieved my New Forest lifestyle dream but..............
We're working harder than ever before now we are living in the New Forest to support the new lifestyle...and we're getting too old!
Time to follow another dream I think! Face another lifestyle challenge
What is the worst thing about doing a day job? I've thought really seriously
about this....
- Getting to work - traffic, bad weather, bus journey - do you feel like a little hampster on a wheel?
- Not enjoying your job - how many people go to work and love their job?
- Are you working for idiots? Not appeciated, overworked or bullied? It happens!
- Is your life draining away - fast! Each day I have a bad day I think at the end of my
life I may want that wasted day back! - now we're really getting maudlin!
- Do you work to live or live to work?
Some or all of these points may apply to you, as it does to us.
We have sat together in bed at night, in the wonderful New Forest, and questioned What on earth are we doing?
Was this lifestyle challenge worth all this hard work now?
Let's turn it around: we're in a terrible credit crunch, the economy is in a nose dive.
People are losing their homes as they struggle to pay their mortgage. Lifestyle changes and challenges are happening to people during this awful time of recession.
The bottom line is....We're both lucky to have jobs however hard we're working.
That doesn't mean we have to lie back and not try to make changes.
Live the full dream - be financially independent! I may even end up, if successful
with my website, working harder than at my day job. If this happens I will be ecstatic!!!!
Why? Because I would be making a living from something I LOVE and feel passionate
about - what a reward. And that alarm clock will be set by me!
I'm looking for personal growth, in an area where I can be self reliant,
in which I hope to achieve financial liberation.
My web site is mine, my own business, and all of it, every last bit has come from
my own thoughts and experiences, here in the New Forest.
I've loved every minute of it and can share some success stories with you of others who are
on a similar journey to me - see what you think.
case studies
About-Me isn't going into massive detail about web site building. BUT I think it is
a wonderful self help e business. New Forest Life site is put together step by easy
step by Site Build It or SBI. It was devised and is run by a man called Ken Evoy.
Ken is wonderful. When I did my stress website I think my husband got a little jealous
of "Ken" and the volume of helpful and informative emails I was receiving from SBI. Not now. This time round he is with me all
the way, shares my passion and has helped me to build my New Forest site.
You can take a video tour
Or if you're on dial up
and learn more.
Yes it is self help but it is also real, honest Net education.
You can also do it as an e-course, from the New Forest, like me or anywhere in the world.
Find out more about the e course
Perhaps reading all this you now think - good heavens, I could never do that? Well there is a dedicated
e-learning questions
page, so you can ask whatever may be worrying you about creating your site, like I have. Give it a go - you've nothing to lose.
Maybe you can reset your own alarm clock too one day..?
What really amazes me is that I really have no time for computers and usually find them quite a challenge. At work they have always been a means to an end but over the last few months I have had a real buzz from
building page after page and adding my own photos and all the New Forest lifestyle information I want to share with you.
Ken is so great he even lets you have your money back if you want - now my husband really
is getting jealous!!!
There's great news if you are not too sure about committing to the full year at SBI (although you do get a money back guarantee!)....
Now, you can try it out by paying monthly.
What have you got to lose? If you're like me, you'll find your passion and there'll be no stopping you!
GOOD LUCK
Are you tempted to dip your feet in the water of your very own website?
Here's your chance to
Ask a question or more....
from knowledgeable and supportive people have already built a successful website and have far more knowledge and answers than I'll ever have! But all I want to do is have a great lifestyle in this beautiful New Forest UK National Park - what have you got to lose???
As I try to build more interest into my New Forest life website I'll be experimenting with different products on the market.
Here's the latest one I'm trying.
About-Me is how I'm trying to build a better life for us. I've met and conquered the first
lifestyle challenge - we're living, very happily, in the beautiful New Forest
I did that and now I'm going to share my passion and knowledge of this beautiful place, the New Forest, on my New Forest Life website and be financially independent (and put my day job behind me!). I am living the dream and have achieved my lifestyle challenge - face on!
Perhaps you could too?

Now you've read my About-Me page and shared my New Forest lifestyle challenge (and future, ongoing challenges)- you will hopefully have seen that the New Forest is my dream.
I realise I am very lucky.
If you have further questions or information after reading About-Me I'd love to hear from you.
Do you have stress issues in your life? Are you facing a lifestyle challenge of your own?
( I also need to confirm that I DO NOT pass on email addresses or information you may provide me with to any other third party or organisation via New Forest Life.com. )
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